From Surviving to Thriving

Let me help you sow the seeds
that reap the harvest of your dreams!

I am a divorcee, single Mom of 3, on a mission to help
Divorced Single Parents elevate from a life of
"Surviving to Thriving".
Providing tools to restore you and empower yourself to
build your thriving life and livelihood!

Divorce Resources

Struggling with effects of Divorce? I’ve been there too and can lend you a hand up. See the divorce program that made a huge change in me restoring my heart, creating an improved version of myself to whose I am and whom I'm supposed to be, especially as a Mom of 3 girls. Also find these resources: a childrens book on parents divorcing, Gaslighting recovery, legal help, & dating tips with humor.

Thriving Mindset

  • Have an attitude of gratitude :)

  • If you don't subscribe to something, you will fall for anything. Gain wisdom & daily habits congruent with goals.

  • Be uncommon. Live in Truth & Light. Give Grace.

Thriving health

Success begins in tiny habits we pair with things we like to do or do on a daily basis. Some form of exercise is a priority to health as you only get one body! My favorite is rollerblading on the trail. It's aerobic & energizing freedom that embodies all the things I love at one time! Got a work-break? Try a nice 15min walk. :)

THRIVING marketing

  • Need someone to publish a simple website or landing page?

  • Interested in making an online income and want to learn more?

For further information, click below

DIVORCE HELP & HEALING

DIVORCE CARE PROGRAM & DC 4 KIDS PROGRAM

I received restoration after my 3rd divorce in 2017 through the "DivorceCare" program that saved me by providing me with a group of fellow Christian supporters who were also directly impacted by divorce.We gained healing, wisdom, and strength to work through our scars. We reclaimed a sense of compassion and letting go of resentment and anger to release negative feelings and move forward with our lives.This lead me to my first step in moving from Surviving to Thriving. The group DivorceCare is a national program. Use the link below to learn more & register for a class near you! I wish I'd known about this after my 1st or even 2nd divorce.It would have saved me a lot of pain in the darkness I didn't need to feel trapped into. I'm thankful God's goodness sent me back to DivorceCare after divorce strike 3!

  • Award-winning author, teacher, and facilitator. When Your Parents Divorce helps ease the anxiety, stress, and uncertainty family members experience during divorce.

  • Written from a child’s perspective, her book helps kids and adults adjust to divorce in a positive, cooperative, and supportive way.

  • Helps parents and kids learn how to proactively communicate on difficult topics with her unique kid-to-kid guides.

  • Kimberly is a dedicated mom to three children ages 22, 20, and 15 that give her daily inspiration.

See link below for Kimberly's
"when your parents DIVORCE"

BEGINNING EXPERIENCES GROUP

Another great program I am aware of whom a friend of mine has been involved in is called Beginning Experience or "BE". This group is a ministry helping with grief resolution over separation, divorce, death of a spouse, and children involved with these losses to enable to love again: oneself, others, and God.The goal is to transform you into a new chapter of your life. Beginning to move past the hurt to a place of healing, peace, and love.

Most BE programs have a weekend event in the states BE is offered. Please contact me directly if you live in Western MN or Eastern ND and wish to get information to connect with groups that meet once per week for 10 weeks at Levels 1, 2, or 3 in addition to the BE weekend.Click the link above for more details and a list of where to find a program within the Beginning Experience Website.

NEED REASONABLE LEGAL FEES?

Here is a resource I wish I had known about prior to and even during my early experiences going thru divorces. This would have saved me so much financially!A new friend and colleague of mine is a Paralegal who offers this service. You can click on the link below to find out more information. It basically provides you with a vast number of attorneys available to handle a variety of legal needs for a flat monthly fee during the time you need it most.So incredibly cheaper than hundreds of dollars/hourly rates charged for typical attorney services! I would have saved thousands of dollars had I been signed up with Legal Shield to handle my divorces for me!

RECOVERY FROM GASLIGHTING

Signs of being Gaslighted
From Single Mom's Retreat Breakout Session, by Lois Breit

  • Don't feel like who you used to be

  • Grown anxious & less confident

  • Feel isolated from friends & family

  • Finding it is increasingly hard to make decisions

  • Making excuses for your partner's behavior

  • Questioning if your response to partner is ok

  • You apologize often & feel like you do things wrong

Helpful links below:

LOVE, DATES, & HEARTBREAKS = DATING 101

Single or Divorced wanting to date again? Here's a great 6 video mini-series on "Love, Dates, & Heartbreaks" by Andy Stanley. I laughed so hard receiving heartfelt wisdom in a refreshing yet entertaining way! Check it out and let me know if you enjoy it.

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MORNING AFFIRMATIONS

YOUR OWN AFFIRMATIONS IN AUDIO

It all starts as soon as you wake up in the morning. What are your first thoughts? Thoughts have more power than we know. Channel them by writing out self affirmations that you want to live by. Record them using a voice recording app on your cell phone while your inspirational music selection plays from YouTube in the background.BOOM, you now have positive empowering thoughts that have real personal meaning at your fingertips in your earbuds while you workout for 10mins, while you're getting ready, or during your commute.

VISUAL

This video was created by a mentor of mine who provided these beautiful morning visual affirmations. You will love how this welcomes your best mindset and sets an uplifting and empowering tone for your day

YOUR PERSONAL VISION BOARD

To compliment, create a Vision Board. There are plenty of ideas out on the internet with several varieties. A traditional board is made on a poster board with pictures cut out of magazines on it along with written words of encouragement. Want to go BIG? Do a Vision Wall!For a digital version, check out the great Apps available on
your cell phone from Google Play Store or the Apple App Store.
This is easy to update and always there with you!It's important to focus on looking at your board and envision yourself as having accomplished the items on your board, being in the feeling these items generate for you. Spend ~3 mins or more 2 times a day in this state.

PERSONAL POWER SOURCE

"The Spirit gives life. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life." John 6:63

Engaging God's Word
Heavenly Father...

  1. What can I learn about You from the verses?

  2. What can I learn about people from these verses?

  3. What do you want to reveal about me or my life in these verses?

  4. What action do you want me to take today?

"It is impossible to rightly govern the world without God and the Bible." George Washington

  • What is your power source? It's great if you can make that a part of your daily routine the first hour you are awake to strengthen you for the day. For me, that's reading a chapter from the Bible journaling to the 4 questions above in reflective response. I like to listen to instrumental songs while I read and journal. I also apply a few key essential oils to Chakra points on my body just before I listen to my morning affirmations and before I have my Jesus time.

  • You can get the essential oils I use for the purpose of being in high vibration during prayer and meditation with oil frequencies & scents that inspire. Some of which are based on biblical references in the Bible. See my "THRIVING HEALTH" tab on the main page, then under the "Win at a cell level" button, scroll down to "Essential Oils Therapeutic Grade" section.

  • Unsure where to start reading in the Bible? It isn't the type of book that you have to read from front to back sequentially. I loved the books in the New Testament of Matthew & Proverbs, many people enjoy reading Psalms as well.

Don't have a church you attend? Here are a couple of services you can watch online from a church I love to attend that feeds
my soul and strengthens my heart.
-The first video below is from the recent series "I PRAY",
with golden nuggets for life.-
-The second video is a service following the music ministry that starts out the sermon with an entertaining humorous video that Pastor Clay uses as a lead into Sermon 5 in his series titled, "Unstoppable".-

-The first video below is from his series "I PRAY",
with golden nuggets for life.-

-The second video is a service following the music ministry
that starts out the sermon with an entertaining humorous video
that Pastor Clay uses as a lead into
Sermon 5 in his series titled, "Unstoppable".-

EVENING JOURNAL

A great ending to your day is keeping a journal of your wins and or things you are grateful for. An Attitude of Gratitude goes a long way spiritually. One of my favorite Christian artists is Britt Nicole. A wonderful message is in her song, "The Lost Get Found", it reminds me to be a light for others and was part of my inspiration for creating this website.On a very personal note, my #1 song of personal inspiration is Britt Nicole's "Walk on the Water". It reminds me of whose I am, whom I can trust, and to live by stepping out in Faith, fueled by the Holy Spirit.The Lord lead me to the next stage of my life amongst people who bear the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control (Galations 5:22-23). For more on these inspirational people look at the section below for our compilation book "Overcoming Life Obstacles".

"OVERCOMING LIFE OBSTACLES" with PERSONAL INSPIRATION

-CONTRIBUTING AUTHOR /EDITOR / WEBSITE DESIGNER-

Want some inspiration? Check out the book "Overcoming Life Obstacles" available now on Amazon #1 Best Seller! I have a chapter in this book, "Thriving Resources Restores" along with many other authors who share their abridged stories on an obstacle they overcame in their life, how they moved through it while offering real solutions.Real people from all walks of life, even some famous, share their stories. Look in bios for contact information by those that provide additional connections for readers experiencing similar problems. I love how the Lord works as He put me in touch with a number of the authors in this book through a powerful 3-day virtual event that encouraged us to live in a life we would love and tools to get there.Below is a recent press release for "Overcoming Life Obstacles" and the main author, my friend and colleague, Shayna Melissa Stockman.

Health Activation

Your physical health is in your hands. I believe in seeing the doctor when I have something I can't fix. But most of the time, we have the power to not just treat a symptom; but to tend to the root cause of our own issues before they manifest into what depletes our system breaking us down.Below are the natural health Biohacks I use daily to support my well-being. They help me stay vibrant & healthy at age 51. I'm still rollerblading on bike trails, working full time, and keeping up with 3 active teenage daughters.

Flip The Switch Activation vs Supplementation

Don't want to accept cognitive and health decline as simply "part of getting older"? Take control of your body by maintaining an adequate amount of sleep, hydration, exercise, and the right combination of nutrients to increase your healthspan. Optimizing your brain and body to function at peak performance gives you a competitive edge in life.

To learn more about Nutrigenomics and take a look at what I do on a cellular level to optimize my biology, click on the "Flip Your Switch" link below for a short video. If you would like more information explaining the science behind this approach to taking charge of your health, click on the "The Science" link below.

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Essential Oils Therapeutic Grade

Essential oils are the aromatic compounds of plants that give them their distinct scents and essence. They are derived by distilling the natural chemicals into liquids we can use as part of a holistic health approach.It is imperative that you use therapeutic grade oils by this I mean essential oils that are extracted and packaged properly without added chemicals or fillers. Quality controlled brands have many therapeutic properties that can have positive impacts on the mind, body, and spirit.I love to wear some of them as a natural perfume and others I may use for emotional support, physical aches/pains, hormonal balance, and antioxidant plus antimicrobial properties.

Purchasing essential oils that are sold at common department stores that try to just 'smell pretty' can be detrimental due to the adulterated state. They may have added chemicals to make them very cheap to buy, you will know this by not only the cost but also their bottle will typically have a warning to "avoid contact with skin". I only use pure therapeutic grade essential oils which list the ingredients by their specific plant names.

MARKETING SOLUTIONS

Assist to Launch Your Business

I want to help you with some of the professional basics needed to
launch your personal business and brand online!
I offer:

  • Personal 1-page website-landing page typically done within 2-3 weeks

  • Multiple-page website build that integrates your color theme and captures your style

  • Assistance defining your "why" and developing your mission statement

  • Facilitate your 1st logo design

  • Integration of Calendly with Zoom Video appointments

  • One pleasing backdrop designed for participating in zoom from your desktop or laptop that includes your business logo

-Complete your name, email, and message form
near the bottom of this page to email me your needs-
or
Feel free to sign up for a free 15-minute consult at the
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to discuss what I can do to help you launch!

Marketing as Your Resource

Want to learn more about online marketing options with programs that teach you what you need to know so that you too can earn extra income or even make more than your present income at your current job,
but do so in the comfort of your own home?

  • Traffic

  • Affiliate Marketing

  • Dropshipping

  • Accessibility

  • Funnels

  • Social Media

  • Online Business

  • Digital Marketing

  • And more!!

NETWORK MARKETING BUSINESS

I love these products, so I became a Distributor in each company! I'm looking for more Independent Parents to
JOIN me on my team! :)

Looking for a side hustle to help you with your income?

Contact me for assistance with 2 options I've got experience with:

  1. Your Health: Activating your body's pathways vs basic supplementation?

  2. Quality topical grade essential oils for a fragrant life with multiple uses?

MARKETING ENTRPRENEURS

Thriving Marketing

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